Trust
and a good rapport are the most important
things for me to establish if my client’s
situation is to change for the better in
therapeutic treatment. Also the client
has to be motivated to change and accept
responsibility for their life. If trust
and motivation are not there, no amount
of treatment will bring about real benefit.
My philosophy is that
clients are coping the best way they can.
Unfortunately, that way of coping may be
inappropriate for the present situation,
because we usually learn our coping skills
in childhood. So it may be necessary to
explore these inappropriate mechanisms
and assist them to change. However, I do
not believe in dealing with childhood issues
if they are not relevant to present issues.
Often clients can see
what the problem is, but cannot change
the emotional attitude causing the problem.
This is why I use a wide range of techniques,
to find the right approach to individual
emotional issues.
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